Listening is such a vital part of communication. Ego is a big roadblock. Insecurity is another... but then that's another form of ego...
If i consider that i already know, then i will not listen. i will object, i will criticise, i will jump to conclusions...even if it is exactly the same thing as i guessed, just respecting the other's communication is so important...
There is also massive poverty of time. People are rushing. They want to reach instant decisions. Time is deemed very precious. And yet the quality of life lead in the bulk of the time... is very low.
What is this time for? What do i want to do? Why do i want to do it? Is it useful for me? Few pause to think... it is just a rush to do... do something. And in the process, no one wants to listen.
If i listen... i will find everything. Why do i want to speak at all until its really necessary?
No comments:
Post a Comment