DO NOT PRETEND.It is obvious to one and all... Truth does not stay hidden... and why bother hiding it?
Toning down the bads, bumping up the goods, highlighting the nice aspects, justifying the mistakes, impressing others, exaggerations and understatements... uhhh.
Pretense is so dangerous... to the self really, more than to anyone else. It is so utterly foolish... and so subtle.
It stems from a desire to be appreciated... from a lack of self respect.
What a sorry state of being.